Social Sciences & Psychology

Social Sciences & Psychology

EFFECT OF FORGIVENESS, EMPATHY, ATTACHMENT TO MARITAL SATISFACTION IN COUPLES WHO HAD BETRAYED

Pages: 14  ,  Volume: 10  ,  Issue: 1 , August   2018
Received: 18 Aug 2018  ,  Published: 23 August 2018
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Authors

# Author Name
1 Febdi Hermawan
2 Nilam Widyarini

Abstract

Marital satisfaction generally occurs if the couple understand each other and the 
feeling of trust toward the couple. However, what if the couple feels betrayed by 
his  own  partner.  This  study  aims  to  determine  the  effect  between  forgiveness, 
empathy,  attachment  to  marital  satisfaction  in  couples  who  had  betrayed. 
Research participants were married and ever betrayed individuals (N = 36). Data 
were analyzed by multiple regression analysis.  The results show that there is an 
influence between forgiveness, empathy, attachment to marital satisfaction which 
is very significant with a significant value of 0.000

Keywords

  • forgiveness ; empathy ; attachment ; marital satisfaction
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